Posted by sunnydays on April 5, 2007, at 9:13:17
In reply to Re: Group Update, posted by Daisym on April 5, 2007, at 0:28:16
((((((((Daisy))))))))
I'm sorry it didn't go as well as you had hoped. I do find that such a problem. It floored me when the group therapist said to me, "Well, maybe others can't see your pain because you talk in such a matter-of-fact way. Well, I shouldn't speak for the others, maybe it's just me." I kind of thought it was her job to see my pain even if I was matter-of-fact, but it did make me realize that people just can't see it and I have to try really hard to be more vulnerable.
I don't know what advice to give you, except we are the net for you. Even if you fall off the rope, we are here to catch you, and so is your T. Keep trying... and know you have support and we can see and feel your pain.
sunnydays
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