Posted by Honore on April 4, 2007, at 9:03:06
In reply to To those less tall than the huggers in their lives, posted by Dinah on April 3, 2007, at 13:11:41
What a great appointment!
I'm happy for you Dinah. Sounds like you said a lot of things that were on your mind-- and you got him a present-- and even liked his reaction. And forgave him for forgetting (which is odd-- that he did.)
Plus a hug! And it was okay, too.
The dangling or intrusive head syndrome while hugging is one that no one has yet solved. The only thing to do is try to dissassociate yourself from your head, and let it go wherever it seems to want to, without letting its bizarre tendency to loll off to the side or run smack into someone's shoulder-- in any way spoil the moment.
Sounds like the shoals of the 12th Anniversary were skillfully navigated. Plus he's shut off the cell.
There's an old game called Scruples-- do you remember it? It's not a therapy game but it asks you all sorts of fun personal/or philosophical questions and then you get to be horrified or astonished at one another's answers.
{{{Dinah}}}
Honore
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