Posted by Dinah on April 1, 2007, at 10:20:44
And in fact I have a very good reason for not terminating. Something would inevitably happen if I terminate that I don't really want to happen.
But my mind drifts there all the time. I even know what termination gift I would give him.
Apart from the good reason I have for not terminating, I think I have some bad ones too. Fear of change. Fear of making him angry.
I don't know how much thought I should even give this, since the good reason is really very good and I think it would be unwise for me to terminate. It's just that I'm so often bored lately, and my attempts to breathe fresh life into our too comfortable relationship just aren't working. And it's not that I dislike comfortable. My husband and I are very comfortable, yet we have fun together because he's a funny guy and we really enjoy being with each other. (Most of the time, of course.) We make our own fun.
poster:Dinah
thread:745950
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