Posted by Tamar on November 22, 2005, at 16:57:39
In reply to Why do we develop so much of feelings towards T?, posted by orchid on November 18, 2005, at 21:08:37
Hi Orchid,
Sorry... I'm still not really very communicative or intuitive. But I noticed one thing in particular about your post that I wanted to reply to...
> Also any tips on how to redirect these feelings towards husband? Is that even healthy to develop such obsessive and intense feelings in real life relationship?
From what I've read, marriage therapy is suppoed to do that. Apparently the transference in marriage therapy is supposed to happen between the couple. I don't know if it's true... I'll let you know what happens when I finally get to marriage therapy!
In fact, it occurred to me that marriage therapy might be something you could get a lot of benefit from, because of some of the things that have happened in the past that you mentioned here at Babble... and especially if you're thinking about having children. But I don't know if you're interested in that, or if your husband would do it, or even if it's available where you are... I know your circumstances aren't particularly therapy-friendly right now...
Tamar
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