Posted by fairywings on August 14, 2005, at 10:06:12
In reply to Re: Failure/Inner Child Work » fairywings, posted by daisym on August 13, 2005, at 23:04:28
> I'm sorry things with the therapist didn't work out. I know you tried to make it work. Were the questions he was asking too hard, asked too soon, or just off base? This might help you understand why the book has caused such an intense reaction from you.
hi Daisy,
thanks for getting back to me, i appreciate it so much. the questions he asked were inappropriate. i think he had his own issues that conflicted with his ability to treat me. they were questions regarding our financial situation, which weren't relevent. There were some other things, and it just made me realize i didn't feel as comfortable with him as i'd like to. i was also told by one of the front desk people that my appts ran about 10 15 min. shorter than his other patients. i feel really stupid for trying to make it work, but despite it all, i still like him and still feel like i got a lot out of it. glutton for punishment?
as far as my past, i was emotionally abused by my parents and one sibling, molested by a female teenage neighbor at age 7, raped at age 14, had the "therapy from hell" after the rape, and in two bad car accidents before i was 20. none of it was worked out.
> I could be way off base, of course, because I don't know your childhood. I will say that being in parts and pieces is very disconcerting. If it hadn't happened to me I would never have believed how intense and real these younger parts are.
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so, is going into parts something that can happen to you when it wasn't part of you before? i have never had parts, and i really don't want this to happen. i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but i see how painful it is to those who have parts.thanks daisy,
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