Posted by pegasus on June 17, 2005, at 14:15:46
In reply to next appt in 5 weeks., posted by Shortelise on June 17, 2005, at 12:14:52
I'm so sorry about this whole situation for you. I agree with littleone that I want to give him a swift kick in the shins. And then ask him exactly what his theory about termination is?? Maybe if he has some organizing principle behind his actions that he could explain, it would make it hurt a little less? Or maybe not. He did kind of explain it as a weaning off a while back, didn't he. Well, why can't he see that's a painful, hurtful way to do it?
SE, you said that you thought maybe we all agree that he's doing a bad job of termination because we're seeing it through your filter. But, that's how *you're* seeing it, right? So, as far as you're concerned, this is a bad termination. And whatever his intentions are, the fact that the termination is going so badly for you should be relevant to him. Am I making sense? I just think it sounds like he might be sticking to some theory and missing the reality of what it's doing.
I really hope things start to get better for you around this, some way or another. I just hurt for you whenever I read the latest developments about this termination.
(((Shortelise)))
pegasus
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