Posted by Tamar on April 28, 2005, at 17:12:52
In reply to Re: Wanting to apologize to my ex T » Tamar, posted by pinkeye on April 28, 2005, at 16:14:54
> My T did know about transference. But I am guessing he didn't have the full relevance of it taught to him. I knew about transference 2 and a half years back itself, but I didn't realize the full power of it till now. That is what I meant.
Ah. I see what you mean.
> I wouldn't go as far to say that to be good, you need to have mental health problems :-)
Absolutely!
> I think you are perfectly right about this responsibility part. I think I keep swtiching myself between a child and an adult (that too an overgrown one), and people get confused of what I really am. They think I am trying to manipulate, when I am just plain incapable of behaving in a stable state.
Yeah, lots of people get a bit confused when confronted with inconsistency. But the people worth knowing make an effort to understand. And it will get better as you keep working on things.
> How old are you?
I’m 35 but I feel more like 50 :) Seriously, though, I think I just got very interested in people’s motivations when I had kids. And then I got depressed and suddenly I had to think about my own behaviour and motivations, and how my illness affects my kids.
How old are you?
Tamar
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