Posted by cubic_me on July 28, 2004, at 17:08:19
In reply to Re: Boring my T, posted by JenStar on July 28, 2004, at 16:46:28
Hi JenStar,
I think in part you are right, I do sometimes think that I am boring, but I seem to have become less boring and more interesting to people over the past few months, so when I think about it, I'm not really that boring in general! Just with my therapist.
I don't tend to tell my T all the things that I do in my life, because they don't seem neccessary for therapy. I have a very busy life with university, hobbies, work, friends, voluntary work etc, but I don't feel that I want to talk about them in therapy because it feels like bragging (in a way). Maybe that's where my problem lies. I tend to play down everything.
Thanks for your thoughtful response, I'm often thinking of 'different' things to do, that I wouldn't have considered before. Last month I got my tongue pierced, before I few months ago I wouldn't have dreamed of actually doing it due to the mild social stigma surrounding it, but now I've got the confidence to ignore it and do what I want to do.
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