Posted by Declan on July 13, 2006, at 22:16:24
In reply to Re: Honour » Declan, posted by Dinah on July 13, 2006, at 21:21:07
Hello Dinah
With pretty thin ego boundaries the trick is to be aware of the judgement of others but not be overwhelmed by it. We do the same as we grow up. My whole thingo was really an involuntary need to merge that became a nuisance, coming from an external reality insufficiently digested once inside me.
Ego boundaries open up when we fall in love. Perhaps that's what I needed to do, and couldn't.
Declan
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