Re: Assumptions are presumptuous » alexandra_k

Posted by Solstice on December 20, 2010, at 23:18:00

In reply to Re: Solstice :( I lose hope, posted by alexandra_k on December 20, 2010, at 21:59:58

Alex -

> It is interesting how the significant majority of his peers (since 'Dr' means so much to you) view his 'schooling'...
And you know his peers well enough that they have discussed with you their views of his 'schooling?' (And it appears you are certain this 'significant majority' all have the same view?)
And you know me well enough to be certain what 'Dr' means to me? It's something I've discussed with you?

> Also interesting how the significant majority of professionals who used to be here have decided to move on.
And these 'significant majority of professionals who used to be here' have personally discussed with you their reasons for moving on? And I suppose they all have the same reason?

> If people don't appreciate it when Bob encourages them to consider their issues instead of considering his behavior I'm not sure why they would appreciate it any more when someone else attempts to do this for him...
Is that what I'm doing? You live inside my head and have personal knowledge of what I'm 'attempting to do'... and you are satisfied that your impression is fact?
I'd like to suggest that it might work better for you to make a bunch fewer assumptions about me, about where my heart is, and about what my motives are. If you want to know my motives, or what I'm trying to do - just ask me. No one appreciates being 'told' by a relative stranger what their motives are - especially when it's erroneous and negative. And although you are free to represent yourself, I don't know that you are qualified to represent others as having made the same erroenous assumptions you've made, and as having the same negative sentiment about me based on those erroneous assumptions.
And I'd like to ask you Alex - in your last clip there, how did you hope I would take it?
Solstice

*Tonight is the Winter Solstice*

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