Posted by Lou Pilder on July 26, 2009, at 12:35:40
In reply to Lou's reply to Mr. Hsiung- » Dr. Bob, posted by Lou Pilder on July 26, 2009, at 9:50:36
> > > C. If you could identify members here in your catagory in question, could you make a list of those in that catagory?
> > > D. If so, could you email me that list or email it to someone that could email it to me?
> > > E. Do you think that any people on a list like that, they saw their name on the list,could be led to feel put down?
> >
> > Please be sensitive to the feelings of others. For example, please don't suggest that anyone do anything that might lead others to feel put down.
> >
> > But please don't take this personally, this doesn't mean I don't like you or think you're a bad person, and I'm sorry if this hurts you.
> >
> > More information about posting policies is in the FAQ:
> >
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
> > http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#enforce
> >
> > Thanks,
> >
> > Bob
>
> Mr. Hsiung,
> You wrote,[...don't suggest that anyone do anything that might lead others to feel put down...]
> I do not see anything in my request that you cited that suggests that the poster in question could feel put down untill you could respond by posting answers to the following. If you could, then I could then have a better underdstanding of what you wrote to me and respond accordingly.
> In regards to your TOS here that this board is for to ask for your rationales, have dialog concerning the actions that you take and the policy and rules here ect;
> A. What is the criteria that you used to determine that my request could lead , I guess, the poster, to feel put down?
> B. If it is someone other than the poster that you write that they could be led to feel put down, I guess, by them reading my request to another member, what could be your rationale for such?
> C. Is asking that another email to anyone here the same as asking the member to post what they are requesting for them to email, if what is requested exists? . If so, could you post here your rationale for such?
> D. In your TOS that you do what in your thinking will be good for the communitty as a whole, and that you would like others to try to trust you in that regard, could you post here what your rationale is that could make it good for the commnunity as whole for others to be restricted here to request from another member something about what they posted and why members are to try to trust you in that regard? If your reply contains aspects with my requests in A, B and C here included in any reply from you to me here, I think that that could go a long way for members to have a better understnding of the actions that you take here and then they could also have the opportunity IMO to post what IMO could be good for the community as a whole if they like. If you could, then I could post here all the outstanding requests from me to you, all of the outsdtanding notification from me to you, and them others could have the opportunity IMO to make their own determination about my concerns without emailing me.
> E. If the same request could be posted here by modifying the request, what would be needed to put in that request, if there exists something to make it acceptable to be posted here?
> F. Could a member request to another member that they apologize and if so, what could be in your thinking the differentiating criteria that could make that an acceptable request and requesting to email me would not?
> Lou Pilder
>
Mr. Hsiung,
If you are considering posting a reply here to my requests to you in this thrread, could you look at the posts in the threads that the following links bring up? If you could, I would like for you to consider what could be seen in those threads in any reply to me here that you may post.
And to member interested in considering posting here in this thread, I would like for you also to look at the posts in the links and consider what can be seen there.
If you are are further interested and would like to email me for additional infomation concerning the aspects here involved, I could email you links that could give further infomation regarding:
A. What other psychiatrists/psychologists write regarding some aspects of the situation that can be seen here that IMO could offer you more understanding so as to post with more infomation
B. The historical parallels to what can be seen here.
C. Posts from here that might IMO could be very interesting in reagrds to what can be seen here as to if you are considering posting here in this thread or parallel threads.
Here are some links that I would appreciate if interested members could take some time to explore.
Lou Pilder
lpilder_1188@fuse.net
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090702/msgs/907121.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090707/msgs/907122.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090707/msgs/906568.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20090302/msgs/897756.html
http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/admin/20080709/mshs/841329.html
poster:Lou Pilder
thread:908249
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