Posted by HappyChaiTea on February 23, 2009, at 21:55:20
In reply to Re: looking up threads..., posted by HappyChaiTea on February 23, 2009, at 21:39:04
In fact the only babbler I have meet in person who hasn't been put down or talked negatively during these meetings is All Done.
But every single one of the Babblers I have met, some time during that meeting, something bad was said about them at one point or another while they were not in the room. I hated this and it included those who weren't in the meeting too.
I just don't have time for such stuff, I am way too old for stuff like this, that is why I no longer plan on ever going to a babbler meeting.
It is sad too because people bare their pain and souls on here, only for that info to be used against them.Maybe it is just my age, but I don't need drama anymore. You have to know how to be a friend, in order to have real friends.
I think sometimes the online world gives us a false sense of security and allows us to be less restrictive in what we say to others, which builds false sense of friendships. I know I learned my lesson. Babble just don't mean as much to me anymore, my real life gives me what Babble used to, social interaction.
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thread:881542
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