Posted by gardenergirl on December 22, 2008, at 11:36:49
In reply to Re: when you're really hurting, posted by twinleaf on December 22, 2008, at 10:10:14
> This is unbelievable. I made a very supportive, clarifying statement about the deputies roles, along with a SUGGESTION, NOT A REMINDER that an empathic phrase might help to avoid pain when the guidelines are being administered. l
Perhaps you might find it easier to believe if you focused on what part of your post Dr. Bob actually cited. Nothing he wrote challenges, negates, or contradicts anything you said above.
> yet I am told not to "remind" anyone to be empathic, because they might feel put down.
Yeah, ummm...Dr. Bob's post says nothing of the kind. Perhaps you might benefit from doing some work on cognitive distortion?
> No-one, none of the deputies, and not Dr. Bob, pays the slightest attention to that. All of you just dither around, mindlessly and endlessly applying your guidelines.
> What is your evidence for this? Does your hypothesis really hold up under testing?
>
> None of it is worth a minute more of my time.That would be a shame.
gg
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