Posted by one woman cine on January 20, 2006, at 9:49:18
In reply to Do not posts » one woman cine, posted by Dinah on January 20, 2006, at 9:04:04
Yes, I do not want to rescind my do not post, for reasons I have already explained. & in my opinion, it was not just an apology, as seen by her post which included this...
"I am trying to make light of my own terrible situation and in doing so, I have upset her." ... "I am not stalking her if that's what she is thinking."
I didn't ask anyone what they thought, I simply stated my request. & also, in her Babblemail to me, I felt it was also not a simple apology - she basically was justifying her position.
It is not my intention to cause anyone harm here. I have withdrawn from posting to Susan47 because she stated it caused her to be upset. I am only requesting that she extend the same courtesy to me. I apologize if it seems like I am splitting hairs - but I feel like my feelings don't count in this matter & they do.
& also feel as if the letter of law can be followed in regards to civility rules, but not the spirit of it. ie, apologies that can also include incivilities that cause someone to feel put down, sarcastic remarks, etc. etc.
If I state DNP, it is not an endeavor I take lightly & something I have put alot of thought into.
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