Posted by Jen Star on July 10, 2005, at 19:13:38
In reply to Re: Do u want me to die? » justyourlaugh, posted by Deneb on July 10, 2005, at 18:13:27
Deneb,
I'm concerned about you right now.To me, the words as written in your post have a tendency to sound somewhat manipulative (when you say that you'll die if another poster wants you to). Do you see this too? I know you might be taking out of hyperbole/exaggeration and probably don't really mean it. But even saying it is troubling to read!
Nobody here wants you to die. Even if they did, for some horrible reason (but they don't!) -- your will overrides that! YOU are the final say in what happens in your life.
I don't think it's acceptable to try and pass off that responsibility to anyone else seriously, jokingly or just as a loose use of words. Your life is YOUR responsibility, and keeping yourself safe is up to YOU. It's not OK to blame babble or babblers for your lack of self-control, or for the way you feel when you get into a bad spot.
Deneb, I like you and I care about you. I want you to be happy, healthy & to live a long fulfilled life! I think you will do that.
sometimes when you're feeling bad & down, your posts about suicide and suicide methods seem to strike a chord of coyness that is out of sync with the feelings of other people here.
Nobody wants you to hurt. What kind of help can we offer here that does NOT discuss suicide methods? Please give that some thought - I'd like to help as best I can over babble.
take care of yourself!
JenStar
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