Posted by SLS on November 5, 2004, at 11:56:17
In reply to Re: Lou offers some clarification » Lou Pilder, posted by NikkiT2 on November 5, 2004, at 9:27:00
> Lou,
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> You said "This may or may not be important to some others but its importance to me to the degree that if the statement is determined to be acceptable, then I feel put down and it could be very uncomfortable for me to be a member of this community.."
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> That is how I feel about your constant requests for clarifications on posts of mine that Dr Bob has not given me a PBC for, and thus obviously finds acceptable.
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> Do you realise how much you are hurting me by your actions?
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> I spoke, this morning, with a very respected Psychiatrist / Psychologist here in the UK about this problem, and he suggested I open some dialogue with you. He said that you might not realise how upset I am feeling over this whole thing.
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> Is there any reason that you target my posts over others? Or is it that you don't read all posts, but my posts happen to be ones you read?
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> I want to feel happy coming here again, and thought that maybe we could discuss this all and make this a happier place to be for everyone.
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> I'm not trying to start any arguments, but to have some calm, rational discussions on it.
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> Thanks,
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> Nikki
Well, maybe you could try one more time, but I don't see that your effort has been rewarded. Lou seems to me to be logical and mechanistic, and is perhaps focused on his goal to the exclusion of all else, including your personal feelings. I don't think you should take too personally his requests for determination of your previous posts, as I am not sure it was his goal to hurt you. Even if it was, he has already been counseled by Dr. Bob that to request determinations of your subsequent posts will earn him posting blocks.It would be my advice to you to exercise a calm and rational avoidance of the poster whom upsets you right now as I believe your storm has just about lost all of its wind.
- Scott
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