Posted by NikkiT2 on January 30, 2001, at 9:20:55
In reply to Re: please be civil, posted by name on January 30, 2001, at 6:16:39
So, you're saying that, if I were to be beaten by my husband, I ahve no right to come here and get support from my "friends". yes, I know the whole concept of friendship, and simply supporting your friends might be a strange one to you, but I know to many of here, we have developed some quite deep friendships here, and I feel able to talk here openly about things I wouldn't be able to talk about else where. And I also know there are people here that love me and care about me, and as such, here would be the first place I would come to if in need of such help and advice.
But, you think this is wrong!! So we all have to bow down to your idealogies and refrain from posting?? What ever the outcome to ourselves??
Please, instead of just thinking about the "rules" and about what you feel is right or wrong, try sparing a thought for the ones of us here in pain, and in need of the love and support of friends.
You're going the right way to putting alot of people off posting here. You're causing a nasty, uncomfortable feeling.
Please, I'm asking you nicely, consider others before posting your diatribes on how you think this place should be run. As Dr Bob says, a bit of constructive critism is a good thing, but you take it *way* too far.
Nikki
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