Posted by SLS on October 26, 2004, at 14:32:14
In reply to head spinning, posted by NikkiT2 on October 26, 2004, at 10:56:36
Hi Nikki.
PBA is really a bad place for you right now.
I wouldn't worry too much about what a poster has to say in their requests for determinations of your submissions. Dr. Bob does a good job of fielding such requests and making such determinations. If there is something there to be questioned, I'm sure the doctor will address you directly, and you will have an opportunity to defend yourself. However, if there is no validity to the request, you can go about your day in a state of bliss.
Really, really, really try to ignore these requests for determination and their author or authors for now. Not doing so will probably provoke you into writing things that you will later regret while you are in this emotionally vulnerable state. We'll have to see if you have already written anything that would cause the doctor to comment on. If you have, it was probably in response to a poster you could have ignored.
If you feel that you would rather not ignore requests for determination, waiting some period of time before responding to them might be a better way to go about it. Still, there is no pressing need to do so.
I know that Lou Pilder writes several posts each day requesting Dr. Bob for determinations. Perhaps you could ignore him.
Taking care of yourself might mean not visiting PBA temporarily.
I know you know all of this. I just thought you might like to see it in black and beige.
Sorry to hear about your girlie problems.
Smile.
:-)
- Scott
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thread:407427
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