Posted by philyra on December 10, 2006, at 13:27:32
In reply to Re: transference » philyra, posted by gardenergirl on December 10, 2006, at 12:08:44
Thanks so much gg, this is enormously helpful.
I have an urge to share some of my feelings with my prof but I mostly know that wouldn't be a good idea. Right? After 10+ yrs of therapy I sometimes have a problem with oversharing. I certainly don't want to introduce any weirdness into the relationship. I think he's had plenty of sobbing students in his office, but I'd rather be the grownup boundaried one for now...
I think this week I'll take yr advice and treat it as a business transaction and go into the meeting being very clear about the project that i want feedback on. And address this stuff in therapy more than I have been too. My hope is that the meeting will help demystify some of the relationship too.
thanks again,
philyra
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