Posted by baseball55 on January 22, 2014, at 20:02:11
In reply to Re: Can't quite believe I am going through with it » Partlycloudy, posted by Poet on January 22, 2014, at 18:42:19
It's good and brave that you are able to acknowledge your own part in your marital problems and not blaming everything entirely on him.
I have been with my husband for 36 years and recently we have had some real problems. He contributes his share. But I have been trying to take responsibility for my own contribution to our issues. Relationships always involve two people.
I think it's hard to move on and be okay if you can't look at your own role and get stuck in anger and resentment and blame. Even if he is more at fault than you, the only thing you can really change and improve is yourself.
poster:baseball55
thread:1059142
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/social/20140102/msgs/1059283.html