Posted by hyperfocus on April 1, 2011, at 19:13:05
In reply to My daughter passed away, posted by Lifeiswhat on April 1, 2011, at 4:24:15
I'm really sorry you have to go through this tragedy. I can tell from the 2nd sentence you wrote that you are a very caring, loving person. I don't have children so I can't imagine what it must feel like to lose a child, especially under these circumstances. But what I can say is that it's not always how caring or loving or trusting we are. We can't control what other people do. We can't stop other people from doing bad things and breaking our trust. What happened here is not your fault.
And you shouldn't think that because you're suffering like this that you're a bad person. It's because you're a good person that this is hurting so much. It might be easier for somebody else to let this go - your husband seemed to find it easy enough. But if you hang around this place long enough or just get to a certain age you're going realize that in life it's the good, caring loving, trusting people who seem to suffer the most.
I believe you will one day get back what you lost. You're still young and you will cross this trying time of your life.
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