Posted by floatingbridge on April 1, 2011, at 11:53:57
In reply to My daughter passed away, posted by Lifeiswhat on April 1, 2011, at 4:24:15
Hey, when did they take your son? How long ago. Others know more here, but you should be able to get him back. Get someone to help you fight. Cps makes mistakes esp when sweeping into a situation.
Get some legal help.
I am very sorry about your baby girl. Listen. I personally know two seperate dads who hurt their kids. One with a pillow, too. Another, on-going sexual abuse. I knew both dads--they can go to h*ll for all I care because they lied to save their skins rather than admit and help child repair. That's where I draw a big line.
My point is, I didn't know, and though I might not have cared for the dad's, we were civil acting 'friends'. The mom's involved had no idea. We had no idea.
Hard as that seems, they deal with the blame and have some support from therapists, s workers, friends, that we can't see these things happening all the time. We can't.
I can see it all in retrospect. I can also see my denial, that I did not want to see how wrong things were. Who does?
Please, be kind to yourself. Remeber your son still needs you. Write more and let us know what's happening with you. Ask advice here. Lots have dealt with cps
here. Knowledge is power. Get your son back.My heart is going out to you right now and a firm handholding, too. Please don't go through this alone. There are many parents like you who have made it through this and can help you grieve your daughter and reunite you with your son. Young means you have time.
Much love,
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