Posted by gardenergirl on November 17, 2010, at 14:12:32
In reply to Re: FYI, posted by johnj1 on November 17, 2010, at 13:53:56
> I have no idea which post you are referring to but if you actually believe nothing has gone on via babblemail,
Regardless of what did or did not go on via babblemail, we cannot accuse someone or cause them to feel accused of what may or may not have gone on via babblemail. The way to have behavior addressed by Dr. Bob that one thinks is uncivil or needs some sort of sanction is to either send a notification on a post in question, or in the case of a babblemail, forward the babblemail with headers to Dr. Bob. The civility guidelines do not allow for us to post about someone or their behavior to complain. We CAN, however, post about our feelings related to the behavior, but that has to be from a first person standpoint. We can say I'm angry or sad or whatever, but NOT "Your action made me angry or sad or whatever."
I don't think it's turning a blind eye, per se. It's more turning a discrete eye by keeping the complaint off the boards. You can find more about the civility guidelines in the FAQ http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/faq.html#civil
Feel free to babblemail me if you want to talk more about this.
gg
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