Posted by Justherself54 on August 30, 2009, at 23:10:02
In reply to Re: Jambo Phillipa, what news? » Kath, posted by Phillipa on August 30, 2009, at 20:49:51
I'm pretty much an open book..my ex of 30 years still comes over for coffee like clockwork every day he's in town, and he's in town for months at a time. We were discussing my illness and my decision whether to start dating again. He said "well you can't tell them"..I said I have to at some point, just when is the kicker..he still diagreed..I told him sometimes I feel that's why I was given this illness..perhaps to "spread the word". You can't keep something like that a secret from someone. Good grief..my ex is an extremely educated, articulate man who doesn't or won't get it.
I said at this age, if I can accept and love a guy's beer belly, hair that's stopped growing on his head but now has migrated to his nose and ears, and various and sundry things, he can certainly take a few mood swings.
He just doesn't get me anymore, poor guy.
Like Phil..I have to talk about it..
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