Posted by SLS on June 19, 2009, at 5:42:30
In reply to Re: Help, I'm scared, a guy wants to have sex with me » SLS, posted by Deneb on June 18, 2009, at 18:09:13
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> > I'm sorry if you find this objectionable, but I truly think that you are moving too fast and trying to do too much at one time. Finding your balance on the horse is more important than attempting to grab every brass ring in the carousel of life. Things can get pretty messy very quickly if one acts on every impulse.
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> > Am I making sense?
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> > - Scott
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> Yeah, you are making sense Scott. I was moving too fast. I was meeting guys too soon and I am not ready to start a relationship. I am pretty impulsive. I have to work on that.
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> I've hidden all my profiles now. I feel relief with this action. I just want a dog lol, not a relationship.
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> I told my pdoc I was old, 27, but then she said I was a very young 27.I was, too, at 27. Even at 40.
> Because of my social anxiety, I have not been socialized properly.
This was exactly my problem.
> I think I am psychologically a young teen at this point.
In some ways, I still have some of that left over in me. I am working in therapy to deal with it.
> Pdoc is helping to socialize me. There is so much to learn.
When I was 27, I didn't quite realize how much there was for me to learn. There was a lot.
See? You are not unique in these matters, and certainly not alone. One thing that you are is chronologically young. I guess you will just have to take my word for it on that one. When I turned 30, I thought my life would be over. lol. I am now substantially older than that, and I feel like my life is just beginning. I feel young.
- Scott
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