Posted by Deneb on June 18, 2009, at 17:59:02
In reply to Re: Help, I'm scared, a guy wants to have sex with, posted by Tabitha on June 18, 2009, at 11:45:59
> Used to date a man who said "being intimate" to mean having sex. Drove me nuts-- made me think he had no clue there was any other form of intimacy.
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> Live & learn Deneb. There are lots of guys just looking for sex. You have to weed them out, quickly. Just write this guy "Sorry, not interested". Block his email if you want. No need to be scared-- he's not going to come to your house & kidnap you.Yeah, you're right, there is no need to be scared. Wanting sex is very different from being a rapist. It's just that in my profile I specifically say that I am not looking for an intimate encounter and also I have written to him to say I wasn't ready to date before but he kept writing me back and asking if we could meet.
He said we could be intimate friends. Stupid me, I just thought that meant close friends. It wasn't until he mentioned a hotel room that I got the real message of what he was saying. He just has my anonymous email address. He has my first name, but my first name is pretty commom. He doesn't know where I live or my phone number.
This is a learning experience for sure. I have to be more careful. I am so trusting. I have the experience of a 14 year old in the world of dating.
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