Posted by TexasChic on October 17, 2008, at 20:40:08
In reply to I'm upset, posted by Deneb on October 17, 2008, at 1:43:36
I would probably feel just like you did. I automatically blame things on my own inadequacies rather than thinking of other reasons. You've got to think it through. If they did intentionally leave you out just to be mean, why would you want to talk to them? I know when it seems like a group of people are against you, it seems as if they must be right because they're the majority. But just because they are the majority in THIS situation doesn't mean there aren't a million people out there who would think you are cool and those people aren't. When I was being bullied at work that time, it seemed like everyone was against me. But I realized most people, if they could see the situation, would probably side with me rather than the meanies. If my situation were put on tv and voted on, I think they would back me. And I think the same would go for you. You are an awesome, beautiful (I've seen your picture!), loving person. So don't let a few meanies get you down!!!!
-T
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