Posted by 10derHeart on October 17, 2008, at 16:59:47
In reply to I'm upset, posted by Deneb on October 17, 2008, at 1:43:36
Maybe....
....they don't know you well enough?
.....they are scared, awkward, nervous?
...they are unaware (therefore appearing "rude" without meaning to be)?
.......they don't "get it?"
......they assumed you didn't want to go there?
......they are a clique and out of habit they go off with just themselves?See a pattern? None of those possibilities start with "you." I highly doubt these occurences on a website equate to not having any friends. You sure have friends here!
Another thought....you could ask for the password for that room? Don't hang out there so don't know exactly the rules or how all that works, or if it's allowed to ask for that publicly. But....I find...*if* you really want something in life sometimes you can't wait, you have to ask.
Or, just chat here.
Or, maybe you don't *really* want to join that group. There is the risk of rejection, of course.
Hopefully, this feeling will pass soon.
poster:10derHeart
thread:857906
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