Posted by 10derHeart on February 12, 2006, at 15:09:21
In reply to Re: 1st time in years *trigger*, posted by deirdrehbrt on February 12, 2006, at 14:22:59
That was a wonderful post, Dee. If only...it were easier to somehow wipe away that tendency to blame ourselves for events where hurt, injury, suffering was inflicted *on* us by - as you so aptly put it - a human animal - and we were *there*, yet totally innocent. S*cks the way our brains work to betray us with those sorts of feelings.
Good therapy can often help tremendously, but it's still such hard and confusing work to undo sometimes years of internalized shame...
Wildcard, hang in there and keep going. You sound like you are more able to enjoy things and understand things, bit by bit. I'm happy for you that's happening :-)
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