Posted by sunny10 on March 29, 2005, at 9:38:29
In reply to Re: Security At Expense of Hunger for Life » partlycloudy, posted by corafree on March 28, 2005, at 20:56:12
your goals are wonderful and very appropriate. Of course you are worthy!!!
(I know what you mean about dissecting things... I do that too- wish I could just get a frontal lobotomy sometimes, you know???!!!??? To NOT think might be a blessing for me!!)
Keep your eye on your goals, and follow T's advice and don't isolate. I have a plan to move, too. I need to get through the end of my current lease (Aug 2006) and then I am free to reinvent myself.
Far away from my family of origin, no one will ever treat me like a disappointing daughter, sister, mother, ex-wife... I will no longer be filling that role for anyone. I will "be" fine, so I will become fine.
Maybe you can think of ways to do a bit of this, too. You could... I don't know... move in as the outgoing book club, knitting club, baking club (whatever) new neighbor who puts the life back into some of those women's lives- and your own.
Reinvent you... whoever you want you to be. Just act like that around people who have no idea of your past and you can become that person for them, and more importantly, for yourself.
Okay, I'm done preaching... you'll read my post, take that which helps and disregard the rest- exactly how it should be!!!
XOXOXOXOX
-sunny10
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