Posted by alexandra_k on February 14, 2005, at 21:12:26
In reply to Re: um, Jay... » alexandra_k, posted by jay on February 14, 2005, at 20:36:02
> > > But when it comes down to talking for ten minutes or less a week on the phone, and being lucky if I get to see her for a half-hour in one month...
> > I think that that really did indicate that she wasn't interested. All the way back then...
> Well, it was what was coming out of her mouth that tricked me. She even went so far as to tell me "I was the best thing to happen to her' in a long time. Geezzz..nice way to show it, eh?Hmm. It is hard when you get mixed messages. Maybe the moral of that was that she needed you to take it slow. Be her friend first and then see what transpired...
Instead she got an ultimatum. Then freaked by the sounds of it...
I guess I am just wondering if there is some sense to be made of all this that may help you in the future and that won't have you be too wary of other women...
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