Posted by KaraS on February 13, 2005, at 22:42:56
In reply to Jay gives the Ultimatum..comments needed :), posted by jay on February 12, 2005, at 14:32:18
Here's my two cents. You definitely could have been more tactful and less accusatory on the letter to her. That did provoke a defensive response from her. OTOH, what she saw as weaknesses in you I just don't understand. Going to school and then working until midnight to accomplish your goals is very commendable. How anyone could possibly turn that around and see that as a weakness is not thinking clearly at all!! Her insistance that your taking medication is a liability is also something I don't understand. You're happier and more functional than she is. Admitting that the you need the help of medication and then getting on with your life is another strength. It is sad for her that she can't see that.
All in all, as everyone here including yourself has said, it's time to move on.
Kara
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