Posted by Angel Girl on January 29, 2005, at 18:13:29
In reply to Slow Down, Lovey » Angel Girl, posted by Susan47 on January 28, 2005, at 21:02:58
Susan
Did I say 'but'? I didn't go back and read what I said. I posted while I was hurt that I hurt a friend even though unintentionally. I am not saying that I didn't say 'but'. All I know is that I always seem to hurt the ones I love the most, even though it is unintentional. Somebody said a phrase in here somewhere. I'm going to look for it again, it was so true when I thought of it.
Not sure where you were going but would love to hear your thoughts on this.
BTW, my friend and I have worked things out on the phone last night and I'm pretty sure we now understand each other and hopefully we won't hurt each other with our comments to each other. It's all misunderstandings on both ends. He knows my heart now and I know his. All is well. I FEEL SO GOOD!!!!
AG
> You're far too hard on yourself, Angel Girl, stop it this instant feel good allow yourself to feel good right NOW. Then read..
>
> "I NEED this person but I don't ever want to hurt this person ever again"
> I NEED this person but I don't ever want to hurt this person ever again
> but..
> you said BUT, Angel Girl, as though it were a construct of your relationships with everybody. Like, as soon as you have a relationship with a person, you're going to hurt them.
>
> Why do you think that?
> Originally, I had that so I was shouting it but I bet you're going to know what I'm saying. Am I way off base? Because if I am that's okay and I apologize, I'm sorry, Susan47 really isn't all that smart you know she's one short of a ..whatever.
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