Posted by B2Chica on January 28, 2005, at 10:13:16
In reply to I HURT SOMEBODY BADLY I DIDN'T MEAN TO!!!, posted by Angel Girl on January 28, 2005, at 0:28:54
sweetheart. i think you've said it very well...
"I didn't mean to".
it's one thing to be vindictive or revengeful...or just plain mean.
you are NOT that type of person. no matter what happened or how badly the incident the fact reamains that you did not intentionally do this.
express this to your friend Somehow...words, flowers, letter, card whatever.
once you have done this the ball is in THEIR court.
IF they are really a good friend, they may yell at you, talk with you, stay mad for a certain amount of time...but they will come back. If they don't, this was never a friendship that was meant to last.Ok, you 'messed up' (from what you say). you've realized your mistake, you've been angry about it...now it's time to let it go. when you do the above it will help you let go. sure you can be pissed at yourself for a while. but it's just a natural emotion. DON"T let it take control of the rest of you!
rememeber BALANCE.please realize you ARE a great person...and life is not life without mistakes.
Please take care
b2c.
poster:B2Chica
thread:448992
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