Posted by AuntieMel on June 22, 2004, at 10:40:51
In reply to Re: Love or in love? » tampagirl70, posted by Dinah on June 22, 2004, at 7:57:36
I usually think of it as 'love - or in heat.' Passion usually fades with time, but if it is love it should settle into a kind of comfort.
For me love is when:
During a point in a gathering someone says something that strikes you both as funny and you look at each other and smile.
You are happy watching a tv show and just putting your head in his lap.
You know all his favorite foods. And he knows the hassle factor of making them, so if you make one of the more difficult ones he knows it's special.
You can wear your worse looking, but most comfortable, things around the house and maybe not take a shower, but it's ok.
and most important:
You can trust that person with details about yourself that you wouldn't share with anyone. Except maybe your therapist or babble.
Anyone else got any?
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