Posted by deirdrehbrt on May 31, 2004, at 21:25:12
In reply to Me and my bro were talking about women and..., posted by owenus32 on May 31, 2004, at 20:01:33
OwenUS,
I'm not in the same position as you, but here's what I think...
Anyone who sees a beautiful person can look at them and recognize that beauty. If you are attracted to a person of that sex, then it will stir up other feelings.
An adult person though, will look at those feelings and decide whether they are right or wrong; whether they are choosing to act on those feelings or not. An adult will decide if what they are about to do will in the long run hurt those around them.
It is how you behave , what you do with those feelings that makes all the difference. If you are a husband, with a wife and children, and you see a pretty girl, think: how are you going to act. Are you going to stare at her, especially in front of your wife? If it is someone at the office, are you going to start seeing her in secret, lying to your wife? These are the things that will get you into trouble.
If you treat your wife well, letting her know that SHE is the special one in your life, noticing that a woman is beautiful, and then looking back at your wife, with a look that says that she is the most important woman in your life, can only prove the same to her.
An exceptional man can make a woman feel exceptional, and vice versa.
So, see what you see, but act the way you should.Dee.
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