Posted by LynneDa on May 18, 2004, at 10:36:19
In reply to Re: Baby Steps, posted by geri122 on May 16, 2004, at 16:53:23
Hi Geri - I'm so glad you had fun, you needed it!! It sounds like, even with the situation that occurred, it was a good night for you. What did you decide to do about your friends who showed up drunk? I agree with Lyssa, it was a one-time special event, BUT I would also be ticked off about it. Not everything's black & white is it??? :-) I hope you can talk to her about it and let her know it hurt you, but then listen to her side of it too. What you've been through has given you a different view, maybe even a little more mature view, than some of your friends. Everybody learns their life's lessons at a different pace.
How's it going with your Mom?
Take care sweetie!
~ Lynne
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prom was last night. I had fun.. i mean there was a lot of drama. We took pictures at the dock, it was cold but it was fun. We went to dinner and just hung out. After the prom we went glow bowling. A whole bunch of our friends went there and we just hung out. A friend of mine called me up on the phone and said she was coming... yeah well they showed up drunk. Now mind you.. these are the same people that judged me for drinking away my problems. You don't know how much that hurt me. You know if the wouldn't have made a big deal about me then everything would be ok.. but they did. I don't want to be friends with people who make it ok for then but not me. We left bowling early because i could not be around that.. it hurt me because we put our differences aside and started be friends again. Now what do i do... make a big deal let them know how i feel or blow them off?
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