Posted by gardenergirl on April 27, 2004, at 1:23:28
In reply to Re: My friend's annoying boyfriend » TexasChic, posted by octopusprime on April 26, 2004, at 22:00:54
Sorry you have to deal with this. What a crappy situation and crappy behavior on his part, and on hers.
Perhaps you can re-frame it for yourself like this: Poor girlfriend. She has a crappy boyfriend. I can see that he is a jerk, but she can't right now. Someday she might, and she will probably be hurt or angry. She'll need a friend then. In the meantime, I will be the best friend I can, but I will do so within boundaries that are necessary for my own comfort.
I hope you are able to find some way to resolve this for your own best interest.
Take care,
gg
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