Posted by TexasChic on March 25, 2004, at 14:37:43
In reply to more hate--more sadness..., posted by inthegloaming on March 24, 2004, at 23:04:53
I had something similar happen just a couple of weeks ago, except with mine, I had what I had confided thrown back in my face, even though it wasn't true anymore. Its made me leary of confiding in anyone anymore. I found myself thinking, maybe I'll just confide to my therapist, that's what I pay her for. But I don't think I can go through life like that. I'm very upfront and prefer that people are the same to me. It really upsets me when they aren't. I think the key is becoming more self sufficient like the previous poster said. Then maybe I won't feel the need to unload my problems on others, and I won't be as hurt when I'm betrayed. But that's easier said than done. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know I understand, even if I don't have any answers.
poster:TexasChic
thread:328027
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