Posted by kara lynne on September 17, 2003, at 0:12:01
In reply to Don't call him » kara lynne, posted by fallsfall on September 16, 2003, at 22:36:35
falls!
I'm so glad you posted. I felt like I let you down. (I know it's not about that, but I'm only human.)I know it's not about missing him--although lately I'm not so sure. I am considering that if we did a few counseling sessions together I might feel a little clearer; either more ready to let go or to see if there is any hope. He mentioned in the last round of emails that he had suggested counseling earlier (right after the break up when I was too upset), and wondered if I was open to that at all. Of course this comes on the heels of my saying I could never get over this enough to consider working things out with him. He still in my mind, shows very little remorse (he's sorry for 'my pain'--not for his actions) and very little desire to fight for the relationship. His messages were kind of wishy washy and he was very quick to accept my letter and call it a day. He said he was apologizing without an ulterior motive--- I replied that the ulterior motive would have been the one that I was looking for. That's when he said he was confused (I don't blame him anymore)--I had written a letter about all his bad behavior and my irrevocable hurt--but then I'm looking for him to show me he cares.
The problem would be finding a good enough therapist that I would trust.
Portrait of insanity.
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