Posted by Penny on July 7, 2003, at 13:08:25
In reply to Therapist Question, posted by giget on July 7, 2003, at 10:08:26
I think you should confront your therapist about what he said that upset you, if you at all can. I know it is hard - I have huge problems with confronting those I disagree with or those who say something (even unintentionally) that hurts me.
My former therapist didn't really discuss religion with me, even went so far as to say she isn't a religious counselor and didn't feel comfortable counseling me in that area, not that she ever prevented me from talking about it. My current therapist actually recommended a church to me, but was quick to say that it was just a thought if I was looking for somewhere b/c, judging by how I talked about my past religious experiences, it might be a place I would feel comfortable. She made sure I understood that she wasn't 'pushing' religion on me or counseling me on what church I should be going to, she was just making a recommendation if I needed one (she's been in this area for a long time).
From my perspective, it is not your therapist's place at all to criticize or comment on your religion, as religion is a very personal choice. Although I suppose I could see him saying something if he felt like it was 'harming' you in some way - holding you back or something. But from what you say, that's not the case.
You could always confront him and make it very clear that your religious choices are not topics open for discussion. It is YOUR therapy.
If he is not receptive to your thoughts, perhaps then you should consider finding someone new. But, I think you should consider giving him another chance, at least to discuss with him your anger and frustration over what happened in that session.
Good luck.
Penny
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