Posted by bookgurl99 on December 18, 2002, at 12:20:10
In reply to Self sabotage, posted by Rach on December 18, 2002, at 9:14:14
Ach, I've done stuff like this before. And I think it's just the product of low self-esteem. I am sorry that you did this about the job.
I think part of it is the fear that you won't live up to the expectations that others have for you. For me, that comes from having extremely perfectionistic parents.
When I start to do things like that now, I tell myself "I'm not going to live like this anymore," and I STOP it.
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