Posted by Roo on July 24, 2002, at 8:29:34
In reply to Re: Why don't women make the first move??, posted by bookgurl99 on July 24, 2002, at 1:01:41
Jay--it's such an iffy situation...I've heard guys
complain and being turned off by women who make the
first move...(but I have to admit whenever I hear guys
say something like that, I assume they must have some
sort of "issues" and that they aren't somebody I'd want
to go out with). I've asked out guys before, but I've always
kind of disquised it as just a friendly outing, which I guess
is what it really should be. I don't usually say "hey baby
do you want to go out to dinner" which sounds very datey...but
I'll say something like "we should hang out sometime...maybe go
take the dogs hiking or something" if we're both talking about
how we like to hike...
I think there are women out there who ask out guys. But if you find
a woman you're interested in...just bust a move...even listen to that
song to get you psyched up for it :-)
poster:Roo
thread:27050
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