Posted by LiLi80 on March 19, 2002, at 12:37:02
In reply to Re: Chat » ELA, posted by kiddo on March 19, 2002, at 8:35:31
If cutting helps, keep doing it. I am the only person who will tell you that. I think. I have the same father you do or they come they from the same planet. the planet of "its not a problem if i dont accept it as one." I think fathers dont want to accept that they are the problem not just you. You came from him, oh no that means he might be the reason you are depressed. STupid fathers dont want to admit that they had anything to do with their childrens depression, whether genetically or making it worse thru stupid behavior and demeaning it like it is all in our heads. Once you realize that you can get away from mom and dad, you will be ok. Try moving out. You will either sink or swim. If you sink you can always go back to living with the folks. If you swim you wont have to deal with your dad anymore. I have realized that, who cares if they are your parents, everyone has issues with their parents, there is no law saying you have to put up with it. Most of the people on the board would agree that their depression has been worsened by their parents in one way or another. But it sounds like you still live with them, so that makes it worse for you. I know that most of my problems would be easier to deal with if i didnt have my stupid parents putting their totally uncalled for 2cents in. I know that once i am out of my folks house i will be happier simply living without commentws like "stop being stupid, and why are you doing this to us". HAng in there if you have to stay in their house, but if you dont have to , get out, cause they are only hurting you. Live with another relative or something. You will happier.
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