Posted by Simcha on January 3, 2002, at 15:04:13
In reply to Re: Great Time In Paris -- Broke up with Boyfriend...., posted by JohnDoenut on January 3, 2002, at 13:36:31
> > I went with my now ex boyfriend. We broke up on the trip.
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> Sorry to hear it. Has happened to me too in the past. Something about traveling with someone that brings out the good and the bad. The quirks and the compatibility or not stuff.OK so now he's having second thoughts. He wants to take me out for dinner for my birthday tomorrow night. He wants to discuss his feelings. We both agreed to break up mutually. I feel immensely relieved that it's over. Apparently he doesn't. I need to stand my ground. Getting back with an ex is soooooo stupid...
> > I just have to be careful now with sex.
> > The funny thing is that on the 40mg of Celexa and 200mg of WellbutrinSR I do not feel the desire to have crazy sexual escapades. I have a life now that is worth living. Thank G-d for medication!
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> >crazy sexual escapades
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> Oh lord just reading that and being a bit high on meds is making me really horny and crazy!!!! If I was single I would go nuts for crazy sexual escapades!!!! ;-) ;-P I would say why dont people start a posting about crazy sexual escapades they have had but that might end up like the Penthouse forums letters! :) When I was younger I did have a few crazy sexual escapades myself and it was fun. But now Im just happy to be conventional and in the bed in the bedroom doing the missionary thing. I dont know why. I havent done it in an elevator but then again I dont want to. I was happy to do it at work or in a car downtown at night. Those were the days. Its all coming back to me now. :)
Do you really want a laundry list?*I've had well over 1000 sexual partners in my 32 year old life.
Places I've done it?
Leather bars in Paris and Chicago.
Alleys
Parked cars in the park
In the bushes in the park
On the roof of an apartment building
In my lover's mother's backyard
Adult bookstores
Public washrooms in parks
Public washrooms in department stores
On a balcony
In bed
In a sling
In an elevator
On the stairs
On the highway speeding down the road
Off the highway at rest stops
In every room (and I mean EVERY room) of the houseMultiple partners?
Hmm.. Well I've had 3-ways 4-ways 5-ways and I've been at many orgies.Let's just say that more than likely if it can be done sexually, I've done it.... It's not something I'm exactly proud of. It's hell being an active sexual compulsive. The old compulsion had made me do many many things that no rational human being would think of much less do. I was completely driven and sex ruled my life.
I'm all for flavor and spice in one's sex life. I want this. I do want this in a healthy way. I want a sex life free of the old compulsion. For the first time in my life I am on my way to that.
There is nothing wrong with sexual experimentation. I'm all for it.
The problem is that when you are a sexual compulsive there are no choices. There is only and unending drive to have as much sex with as many partners as you can.. ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT. It never ends. It rules your life and you do not see any way out.
So, healthy experimentation and sexual expression is a YES.
Driven maniacal cravings that never end and that must be satiated.....NO!!!!!
-Simcha,
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