Posted by Anna Laura on July 18, 2001, at 2:10:40
In reply to Re: Really Bad Day » Roo, posted by shelliR on July 17, 2001, at 18:32:06
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> > I dread all the pain that lies ahead of me.
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> Roo, I think you are very brave. I hope that in this pain, you will also feel a lightening--a bit of a weight lifted, in the experience of letting something go that was not right. ShelliI agree with Shelli when she says that you're brave. (been there, i mourned over the loss of a wonderful friend but he wasn't the guy for me)
Consider that: yes, it's heart-breaking, but still, the fact that you're going to leave him it means you're strong enough to get along by yourself; think how many women married the wrong guy just because they were too scared to face life alone, or because they felt too old and feared that it'd be the last occasion for them to "catch" someone.....and then they lived unhappily thereafter.....Go ahead, you're making the right decision: you're holding your life in your own hands, you're strong Roo! Don't blame yourself for that. Mourning over a loss and feeling sad it' s natural, good thing you feel sad: it means you still have an heart, that you are still able to feel
emotions so that you can receive and give love
which is a good thing.Wishing you the best
Anna Laura
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