Posted by sar on July 8, 2001, at 23:37:10
In reply to Re: Sexual fantasies and shrinks, posted by JennyR on July 7, 2001, at 21:34:24
Hey Judy,
You've been with this doc for awhile, right? Are you comfortable with this, or do you think it would help to see a female doc? (or are you bi?)
I always choose female psychologists because I feel like they'd not think about me in a sexual me (nor me towards them)--I want to be so brutally honest in the office that I don't want any room for flirtation. Also, 'cos I have Issues with Men, I like speaking with a Woman. I like for my psychologist to be kind of life a professional girlfriend/doctor all wrapped up into one.
The way I feel about my femal psychologist though, is--well, I'm envious of her education, clothes, community respect, expertise, etc--not a crush, but admiration.
This is a sticky topic, I know, but didn't you endure some sexual abuse? Do you feel comfortable speaking with a man about this?
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