Posted by Kingfish on April 13, 2001, at 19:54:19
In reply to Re: -- phillybob and all , posted by phillybob on April 13, 2001, at 11:14:21
Why, thank you very much! I certainly do not Try to start nice threads - they must just happen. :)
I agree that Mila's response was lovely. It is hard not to want to separate those difficult times from what seems now to be the "clearer" ones. But they are all part of "me" aren't they?
What do you do, though, when someone else's feelings are involved? When you realize that the relationship you've been in hasn't necessarily been that healthy?
And what if that person Suddenly realizes that you're stronger than before and starts "straightening up" when faced with the concept that you actually could leave? Is it too late after ten years of a fairly dysfuncional relationship? (O.K. - we're getting personal here! ;) )
I just never thought about the issues that could arise from "getting well"...
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