Posted by Annabelle Smith on February 2, 2011, at 20:32:27
In reply to Re: Nutritionist: Update and Transference, posted by Annabelle Smith on February 2, 2011, at 20:23:30
More directly-- if I am honest with myself, you are totally right. I do care what he thinks. I want to project a positive image; hence the embarrassment and shame if we talk about things that to me seem less than flattering.
In general, I care way too much with what other people think-- hence the faking it and feeling unreal, being like a mirror to them, reflecting back what they think. I want to feel real in their affirmation.
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