Posted by Daisym on January 11, 2011, at 0:39:20
In reply to Re: My story - long, posted by gardenergirl on January 10, 2011, at 17:22:33
We've spent a fair amount of time talking about disclosures and how it feels to me to read him. Here is where my training really kicks in because I'm good at thinking about the possible reasons for boundary crossings or fantasies - I can write it up as a case study. But trying to figure out my feelings is so much tougher. And it is hard to admit that I really don't want to know about his thought processes - it feels selfish.
I think we all believe we are too self-aware to let our "stuff" get in the way of our work with clients - even though we also seem to be alert to our own transference and counter-transference feelings.
How would you feel about role playing a repeat of a conversation that didn't go well?
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